Mistakes men make when it comes to sex texting

In the present era, with an increase in online dating and online chatting, it becomes important for men to be proficient in sex texting along with real sex. Many times, before doing the actual 'deed', couples want to get comfortable with each other through sex texting. Therefore, it is important that you are well-versed in the art and don't get blocked by your prospective partner. Below are some mistakes that men make while sex texting and how to avoid them.

Starting too quickly

Just like with the actual sex, many men also want to do things too quickly when it comes to sex texting. In reality, as foreplay is important in sex, some kind of seduction is also important in sexting. Therefore, before rushing into sexting, start by complimenting the girl and start by letting her know how you want to seduce her; before proceeding with the actual act.

Sending unwanted nudes

Men generally get turned on by the nudes of women. This, however, is not the case for women as they do not get aroused by the dick pictures of men and rather find them annoying. So avoid sending these kinds of nudes and even if you have to make sure that penis is attached to a body.

Making assumptions

No two people are the same and their choice is also not the same. Therefore, it is not safe to make assumptions about what your girl likes in sexting. Rather you should discuss with your partner and try to understand what they like when it comes to sex texting so they can get what they are looking for.

Sex chat at inappropriate times

Guys need to understand that there might be times when the girl might be busy and not able to sext or send explicit photos. Here, you need to respect her work and stop bothering her at inappropriate times, or she might get irritated. This might also make you look like a desperate man who is only interested in sexual things.

Demanding nudes

There is nothing wrong if you have established a rapport with a girl and have regular sexting with her before requesting her nudes. However, it becomes an issue if you do not know her well and still pester her to send you nudes as it comes under harassment. This action of the girl may make her feel that you are controlling and want to rush into things. It might also make her suspect that you have some ill intentions, and you might blackmail her in the future. So, it is better that you avoid asking for nudes altogether.

Not taking consent

Just like in real sex, consent is also important when it comes to sexting. Just because you sexted with someone in the past does not mean she might still be ready for it, as it might have been a one-time thing for her. So before sending some horny message to someone, it is important to make sure that they are up for it!

Sexting has various benefits, but it is important to do it properly. Make sure that you do not make the above-given mistakes when it comes to sex chat so you can have a good experience.